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 Hi, I’m Olivia! I love sports, music, and spending time with my friends and family. Over the next few months, I’ll be sharing my thoughts on the importance of family. During the COVID-19 lockdown, my family and I developed a strong bond that helped me truly appreciate just how significant family can be. Through sharing my experiences and research, I want to encourage others to take a closer look at the role family plays in their lives and to never take those special connections for granted.

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